This topic is now archived and is closed to further replies. I feel bad for her really. I am trying to figure out what he was curious, it's not going to ask this because I know my post which I realize that I dont like it, but haters are always staring at my mother's home on my ones. By When he constantly accuses me and gets upset I feel the guilt as if I have done something I have not done. Sorry to go on about it so much. Create an account to follow your favorite communities and start taking part in conversations. He says I must have slept with them all. I know she cheated. I Am The Only Family Member Not Invited To A Wedding - What Should I Do. Theres nothing that would make this illegal in an employment law sense (like a law saying that your employer cant show up at your house), but its certainly possible that its illegal in a more general sense, like if he violated disorderly conduct laws or something like that. Her and I basically go back and forth for the next hour or so. Her anxiety makes her act up and look silly. I don't want to get your hopes up but I think you have a good chance of reconciling if you play your cards right. But perhaps that's his way of dealing with it. I've been a poster here for longer than most, yet I've never seen or had this happen to me before. Ex's don't like surprises, if that is what you are planning. He had to think of you to do this. I know you love him, but before you even consider going back with him, you better make sure he's gotten over this. Something is fishy here. I just wish I knew the reason why he decided to show up. Started Friday at 11:13 PM, Mel Robbins posted a blog entry in Youtube, September 23, 2022, Psych2Go posted a blog entry in Youtube, September 23, 2022, Tony Gaskins posted a blog entry in Youtube, September 23, 2022, Yahoo posted a blog entry in News, September 11, 2022, Newsweek posted a blog entry in News, September 11, 2022, The Coolest Part About Jealousy That You NEVER Realized, TikTok mom Jac Woodwell (@jacquelinewoodwell) shared the moving story of meeting her now-fianc on Tinder after the father of her child dumped her while she was pregnant. I tried explaining that I had friends that are guys and that they were JUST friends but he wouldnt buy that either. Bad bad idea. 8 ) /cheers and stay strong by your belives. This topic is now archived and is closed to further replies. TL;DR - My question is kind of advice, support, or at least insist that he loves me and my first time she slept with someone. Big House With Lots And Lots Of Room . I don't know, whatever, I go out with two different types of creepy messages. But now he seems to be adamant of finding new non truths. She kept on turning the knife already stuck in my heart. Ask Your Own Parenting Question. No doubt! Really hard to say what were her intentions. Obviously she felt guilty, and wanted you to hear her out. It seems to me she was so comfort Me: Look you're not over it..you told me that last night and I can just tell..I honestly don't even know you anymore..I'm out all of the time now..If you see me out, come say hi and we'll see what happens. Izzy1234 .s5ap8yh1b4ZfwxvHizW3f{color:var(--newCommunityTheme-metaText);padding-top:5px}.s5ap8yh1b4ZfwxvHizW3f._19JhaP1slDQqu2XgT3vVS0{color:#ea0027} It's freezing outside. She had pushed marriage in so many different ways but i just did not have the money to ask her father. ._12xlue8dQ1odPw1J81FIGQ{display:inline-block;vertical-align:middle} Who dumped who in my situation is a bit hard. I hate her and her audacity and crazy. Write it down and date it. I dont know if he woulda showed up just to say nasty things. She didn't come straight out and say 'I want you back', which I thought she was going to do. I tell her that I gave her the best of me, but I completely changed my lifestyle. Did you lose yourself in this relationship? Or you'll have her really messing with your emotions. However, being the idiot that I am, I let her in and walked into the living room. She used this guy as a rebound so she wouldn't have to face the issues and pain of the break up. Perhaps this was a mistake on my part. 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He didn't want to give concrete answers about the finality of our relationship so I made him It has definitely set me back a little. If they repeatedly come around your house when you don't want them, they may be stalking you. Only if you can hide away safely in their closet before they get home. She made references to it a few different times and I told her that it wasn't her business. He usually sleeps in til like 2pm. I'm with shuttle, it's almost like she gave you the sob story to gauge what's going on with your life and your feelings. Just imagine if you were d She didn't say anything about being friends, getting back together, or whatever. She left crying at one point, saying that she just couldn't take it. I hope for her own sake that she's on her own now. Now I do and its partially because of the break up(got a great new job) so here I am. My ex showed up at my house unannounced - wow bad idea for him. And I know it isnt right for him to call me names and say nasty things. Continue with Recommended Cookies, By Actually, as far as being final messing with her I think that's a good example of you closing the door that she wanted kept open. I know she would. Maybe this was her first step in getting herself back together. I basically said to her that I was fine now and it took me a very long time to pull myself out of the gutter and get back on my own two feet. Yes the trust is broken, I just hate this feeling. Yeah, but four months into the BU? In addition, attorneys often put orders against harassment in divorce, custody and visitation judgments, which may also be violated by showing up unannounced at the other party's home. Call the police and make a complaint. Kartoff ._1LHxa-yaHJwrPK8kuyv_Y4{width:100%}._1LHxa-yaHJwrPK8kuyv_Y4:hover ._31L3r0EWsU0weoMZvEJcUA{display:none}._1LHxa-yaHJwrPK8kuyv_Y4 ._31L3r0EWsU0weoMZvEJcUA,._1LHxa-yaHJwrPK8kuyv_Y4:hover ._11Zy7Yp4S1ZArNqhUQ0jZW{display:block}._1LHxa-yaHJwrPK8kuyv_Y4 ._11Zy7Yp4S1ZArNqhUQ0jZW{display:none} I do wish I thought that would work Ive often told her that she can reach me if she needs but she refuses to because its his responsibility even though Ive been here for 3 years of the the childs 5 years on this earth. I suspect that if the "power struggle" and "game playing" weren't still going on she'd never have shown up to begin with. You say she has a maid so you probably wouldn't be let in the house anyways. Is he interested or did I misunderstand the situation.. TikTok mom who got 'dumped' while pregnant shares how Tinder date became her fianc. Also, I think she blocked me on Facebook too so she doesn't see any of my wall posts to friends or whatever. An example of data being processed may be a unique identifier stored in a cookie. She started crying, saying how sorry she was for 'hurting me'. There's also a no contact order against him yet he just pulled up ? Why else would she show up at your place at 10pm unannounced? Started Friday at 11:13 PM, Mel Robbins posted a blog entry in Youtube, September 23, 2022, Psych2Go posted a blog entry in Youtube, September 23, 2022, Tony Gaskins posted a blog entry in Youtube, September 23, 2022, Yahoo posted a blog entry in News, September 11, 2022, Newsweek posted a blog entry in News, September 11, 2022. She never said no to hanging out when we are out, but she didn't say no, either. I wouldnt do much focus on the dont do this message when dealing with HC, and instead just say she can always reach out to you if she cant reach him, and how it would spare her of the worry, inconvenience of driving out of her way and having to show up unannounced. Read More >, This has never happened in our family before. And I think it was really brave of her to come to your place, to come to talk to you face to face. This is obviously the wrong forum to post in, but I figured I'd get the most views here. 2. You , Drawing Personality Test House Snake . After how he reacted today he will probably pull away from you for a while until he has healed. Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts. She is blocked from everything possible. I don't want anyone showing up at my house at 7am unannounced, especially my ex. You are adverse, Dana Perino South Carolina House . Has an ex ever showed up at your house unexpectedly? ._2Gt13AX94UlLxkluAMsZqP{background-position:50%;background-repeat:no-repeat;background-size:contain;position:relative;display:inline-block} Not as much though, so getting better. What a raw hand to be dealt though. Is he interested or did I misunderstand the situation.. TikTok mom who got 'dumped' while pregnant shares how Tinder date became her fianc. ._3oeM4kc-2-4z-A0RTQLg0I{display:-ms-flexbox;display:flex;-ms-flex-pack:justify;justify-content:space-between} The whole thing sound pretty weird to me he just sounds a bit erratic. +1 y Him showing up I'd respect / care because it costed him time, energy, finances (gas), the thought of doing it, and the risk of not knowing how you'll react. Sometimes it's genuine, sometimes it's a form of gloating. Its such a sad situation. Show More. Press J to jump to the feed. I've already told her that I'm not going to chase after her. im not sure what you meant by, "OTOH, if you broke it off and truly want to try again, can you not contact her by some other means?". Tuesday, December 13, 2022. Haunted cannery spook house, Sun In The Second House Synastry . She's crazy. File it as a stalking incident. jessb86a It is also a sign of pathological jealousy. In a way it's good that your ex is hurting now rather than later because it will allow him to heal quicker. I even told her that my mistake was not letting her go and letting her deal with her issues on her own instead of making her problems, my problems. ._1aTW4bdYQHgSZJe7BF2-XV{display:-ms-grid;display:grid;-ms-grid-columns:auto auto 42px;grid-template-columns:auto auto 42px;column-gap:12px}._3b9utyKN3e_kzVZ5ngPqAu,._21RLQh5PvUhC6vOKoFeHUP{font-size:16px;font-weight:500;line-height:20px}._21RLQh5PvUhC6vOKoFeHUP:before{content:"";margin-right:4px;color:#46d160}._22W-auD0n8kTKDVe0vWuyK,._244EzVTQLL3kMNnB03VmxK{display:inline-block;word-break:break-word}._22W-auD0n8kTKDVe0vWuyK{font-weight:500}._22W-auD0n8kTKDVe0vWuyK,._244EzVTQLL3kMNnB03VmxK{font-size:12px;line-height:16px}._244EzVTQLL3kMNnB03VmxK{font-weight:400;color:var(--newCommunityTheme-metaText)}._2xkErp6B3LSS13jtzdNJzO{-ms-flex-align:center;align-items:center;display:-ms-flexbox;display:flex;margin-top:13px;margin-bottom:2px}._2xkErp6B3LSS13jtzdNJzO ._22W-auD0n8kTKDVe0vWuyK{font-size:12px;font-weight:400;line-height:16px;margin-right:4px;margin-left:4px;color:var(--newCommunityTheme-actionIcon)}._2xkErp6B3LSS13jtzdNJzO .je4sRPuSI6UPjZt_xGz8y{border-radius:4px;box-sizing:border-box;height:21px;width:21px}._2xkErp6B3LSS13jtzdNJzO .je4sRPuSI6UPjZt_xGz8y:nth-child(2),._2xkErp6B3LSS13jtzdNJzO .je4sRPuSI6UPjZt_xGz8y:nth-child(3){margin-left:-9px} Turns out he left. In some cases, individuals do it out of anger or spite. Tries to get back with his ex while wooing you. Started Monday at 08:56 AM, By I would be throwing hands if BM walked into our home uninvited. Im really worried about him. It was discussed and both decided to have her just stay put. Make sure to keep your door locked. We're looking for new mods! I did enable her too though, so it's not totally her fault. Please I need advice. I think he has some growing up to do. It seems like if you were actually worried youd call even if you didnt like the person right? She really needs to take time and learn more about herself. What's your gut tell you? She probably thinks that I'm going to be on pins and needles for the next time she shows up. It caught me way offguard and the fact that she lied to me, bothers me. Paid a visit to her parents, because it was christmas. The Coolest Part About Jealousy That You NEVER Realized, TikTok mom Jac Woodwell (@jacquelinewoodwell) shared the moving story of meeting her now-fianc on Tinder after the father of her child dumped her while she was pregnant. Thank You for Everything Youve Taught Me! Started Thursday at 10:00 PM, By she rarely smoked cigarettes but in those 3 weeks I saw that she had smoked a lot of cigarettes. I don't think I'd communicate with him in person just yet. You sound like you are doing great after your bu. It was disasterous. What do you think? Also, she asked me if I was dating, basically dropping subtle hints the whole time about my dating life, etc. I didn't do it because I wanted her back(even though if the chance came along, I might reconsider if circumstances were different), but because I honestly wanted to say hi to her parents. Just two days ago he said he never wants to see me again. My ex has only supervised visitation, but he keeps showing up at my house without notice or permission and making major scenes to see our son. Her: Again I thought you should knowSorry If I confused you or bothered you. After all, we were together for 4 years. There was one time he got caught up and missed picking her up but the school called both of them and she was picked up from aftercare. I was very worried. (Cite: Healing Journal). The other day my boyfriend was out picking up his daughter from school and I was home (we live together). Anyone reading my previous threads would know that my ex hates me and says he never wants to see me again. Tell me thats not confuisng? Know your limits but also show her respect because honestly it's hard to say what the heck is going on in their minds, because frankly they dont' know what is going on in theirs. 3. She said that wasn't the case at all, that she fell in love with me after a short while. He was married, but intending to leave his wife. I still can't get over the audacity of her, dude. "He was my everything"I hope that is just an expression. Was a weak attempt at humor as everyone else has already given the best advice. Your emotions will come flooding back and you will be left feeling worse than before you showed up. Why did he turn up like that at 7am. Something happened with them and now she has to face the music of what's going on. By accepting all cookies, you agree to our use of cookies to deliver and maintain our services and site, improve the quality of Reddit, personalize Reddit content and advertising, and measure the effectiveness of advertising. Asking me who told me this, that I was choosing believe them over her. We dated for 2.5 years, broke up four months, etc. I kept saying to her, So that's it? ( I read about her barging in and taking her daughter out of bed) this woman is unstable. Why does my boyfriend keep his exs things in his house? I'm still sticking with no contact. I can't tell if it was the right thing to do, or ignorant but brave nontheless and you def. Things progressed quickly and we both Yeah I agree with you here. He was busy taking care of a sick child and not at his phone and HCBM decided it was a good idea to drive to our house because she was worried with her own mother in tow as a witness I assume all because she didnt get an update for a few hours. Her: It took me 4 months to talk to you..I cut you off when we broke up completely and we needed that..I've gotten to a place where I could talk to you about what happened and I knew you were hurt and I wanted to tell you those things. I do this too. So she was worried about what to do etc.. That night when I caught her though of course she acted like she was trying to break up with me. If you do not want them on you property, you can ask them to leave. @keyframes ibDwUVR1CAykturOgqOS5{0%{transform:rotate(0deg)}to{transform:rotate(1turn)}}._3LwT7hgGcSjmJ7ng7drAuq{--sizePx:0;font-size:4px;position:relative;text-indent:-9999em;border-radius:50%;border:4px solid var(--newCommunityTheme-bodyTextAlpha20);border-left-color:var(--newCommunityTheme-body);transform:translateZ(0);animation:ibDwUVR1CAykturOgqOS5 1.1s linear infinite}._3LwT7hgGcSjmJ7ng7drAuq,._3LwT7hgGcSjmJ7ng7drAuq:after{width:var(--sizePx);height:var(--sizePx)}._3LwT7hgGcSjmJ7ng7drAuq:after{border-radius:50%}._3LwT7hgGcSjmJ7ng7drAuq._2qr28EeyPvBWAsPKl-KuWN{margin:0 auto} Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns. All completely unhinged and in an argument with my bf. He doesnt have to confirm he is picking her up on his court ordered days. Found out there was NO emergency. My ex is doing kindof the same thing, he dumped me while he was already living with his current gf. The sun is the thir, Malayalam Movie In Ghost House Inn Songs Download, The Secrets Of House Music Production Pdf Download, How To Draw A House Without Lifting Your Pencil, Oh Let's Get Rich And Buy Our Parents House Lyrics. This is a tough call dude. Why are you ignoring me, etc'. She starts to cry again, saying that she was finally able to talk to me face to face and that I should respect that. By Even if the claims arent too serious, you may not find about an investigation until a CPSsocial worker arrives. SHOWING UP AT HIS HOUSE UNANNOUNCED! before the 1 month of nc, when her kids would pick up the phone she would let them talk to me. Keep a record of each incident where you encounter (or even notice him) nearby. She said that she could tell I wasn't over it yet and she said that she wasn't either. I thought it was pretty funny! Let him come to you and don't ever try to defend yourself because that makes you look guilty. We also really wouldnt want him texting and driving, cell phone usage near schools is also illegal and bc you know the schedule, you can always offer reassurance if shes unable to reach him. Its difficult because him turning up was a reaction to my NC I think. Create an account to follow your favorite communities and start taking part in conversations. Read More >. We have encountered a ridiculous amount of comments that don't follow the rules and are downright nasty. She has a lot of issues to work on and you don't want to go there, nor can you help her out. Ya don't tell her. Or you'll have her really messing with your emotions. My ex showed up once years ago after I started dating another girl. That w TikTok: @xomissjaay, Sheryl Jacques. She has a lot of baggage with Daddy issues, home issues, etc. That was only this past September. Also why the emotional break down in front of you? I did when she was overseas. She kept saying that she didn't know what it was like to be alone and she's been learning that now. Just seems so crazy if you ask me. It may or may not work, but its atleast a more passive approach to someone HC & also allows you to kind of assert your position in their lives - which I have found is important considering they often live in denial. He told her it was inappropriate for her to show up unannounced since hes not the only person who lives there but she doesnt see anything wrong with it. ._1QwShihKKlyRXyQSlqYaWW{height:16px;width:16px;vertical-align:bottom}._2X6EB3ZhEeXCh1eIVA64XM{margin-left:3px}._1jNPl3YUk6zbpLWdjaJT1r{font-size:12px;font-weight:500;line-height:16px;border-radius:2px;display:inline-block;margin-right:5px;overflow:hidden;text-overflow:ellipsis;vertical-align:text-bottom;white-space:pre;word-break:normal;padding:0 4px}._1jNPl3YUk6zbpLWdjaJT1r._39BEcWjOlYi1QGcJil6-yl{padding:0}._2hSecp_zkPm_s5ddV2htoj{font-size:12px;font-weight:500;line-height:16px;border-radius:2px;display:inline-block;margin-right:5px;overflow:hidden;text-overflow:ellipsis;vertical-align:text-bottom;white-space:pre;word-break:normal;margin-left:0;padding:0 4px}._2hSecp_zkPm_s5ddV2htoj._39BEcWjOlYi1QGcJil6-yl{padding:0}._1wzhGvvafQFOWAyA157okr{font-size:12px;font-weight:500;line-height:16px;border-radius:2px;margin-right:5px;overflow:hidden;text-overflow:ellipsis;vertical-align:text-bottom;white-space:pre;word-break:normal;box-sizing:border-box;line-height:14px;padding:0 4px}._3BPVpMSn5b1vb1yTQuqCRH,._1wzhGvvafQFOWAyA157okr{display:inline-block;height:16px}._3BPVpMSn5b1vb1yTQuqCRH{background-color:var(--newRedditTheme-body);border-radius:50%;margin-left:5px;text-align:center;width:16px}._2cvySYWkqJfynvXFOpNc5L{height:10px;width:10px}.aJrgrewN9C8x1Fusdx4hh{padding:2px 8px}._1wj6zoMi6hRP5YhJ8nXWXE{font-size:14px;padding:7px 12px}._2VqfzH0dZ9dIl3XWNxs42y{border-radius:20px}._2VqfzH0dZ9dIl3XWNxs42y:hover{opacity:.85}._2VqfzH0dZ9dIl3XWNxs42y:active{transform:scale(.95)} Started Monday at 08:56 AM, By Just seems suspicious to me. That is dads job. Has anyone tried to set something up through a relative etc? I wish I was at your stage, been one month from my bu, and still feel like crap. .FIYolDqalszTnjjNfThfT{max-width:256px;white-space:normal;text-align:center} It's like she can't be happy for herself so she has to let someone else down. We haven't communicated there in months So hm. Everytime I tell him the truth he says im lying. Some parents may expect to have a visit at some point, but may not know when.. Even though I've been dating and enjoying the company of other women for the last month or so, my ex still has some control over me. I dont know how to fix this honestly. He was psycho though & my father called the cops on him, of course he was gone by the time they showed up. She has said stuff like 'I really want to talk to you. 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