All the Best. I cant give personal advice because I dont know your situations, marriages, personalities, etc well enough. I checked the phone a week later and the number still kept on coming up. I bought spyware, and while he was away from his phone, I installed it. I asked him if he wanted an open relationsihp and he said NO! And good men get cheated all around and you fail to see them when you meet them so maybe you should stop blaming nature and men and start figuring out whats wrong with you. I asked her if she had an emotional attachement and she said she was not attached to him but the business/shop. Im not his mother. Ive gone through fertility treatments and that is how Ive been able to get pregnant. Find out whats wrongmy guess is you already know what issues are between you two. He gets very defensive when i bring anything up. My relationship with my husband was rocky from the very beginming which was early 2002. My husband denied it, said I was crazy and he would never cheat on me. He did not set up the account for a friend- it is for him. Hes made it out like Im the one crazy. Hi I am not married, but i have been in a relationship for almost 4 years now. You would not do those things to him! His response was yes, I had a good time. You seem to be a very loving person, with hopes for a wonderful family. It very very clear that your husband is cheating. 1st clue that there was evidence! But, the article may give you some direction and insight. My wife thinks i am cheating but i have not. This bothered me for the facr she was our neighbor. Mabel i would be moving on with my life. He knew how he hurt me. I heard how much he had changed and wanted to plan a happy retirement and travel for the rest of time we had left. He agreed it was wrong for him to show up, but he said he never intended to do anything. Either that, or he has joined a hook-up site and has found a married woman in which to have these trounces with. I pray every night for God to take me away when I do finally go to sleep. He was out of town and called me crying because she was filing for divorce but he wasnt sure that was what he wanted. I can get past the junk everywhere and the dogs, but, I cant get past his lack of diligence in his job search and what I believe to be deception and lies to me now. Its awfully hard to move on if hes still in contact with her. With someone . You say youll be OK and I believe youll be better than OK. You have connected with yourself, you are getting stronger and healthier every day. As humans, especially as women, we have a need to love and be loved. He flat out tries to lie and deny but I know better. Im so sorry you have to go through this. what do you think, could it have happend. He said well lets go, I know her and you know her brother. What do I do? Prior to our move I found out he was having another affair with a coworker who was also scheduled to go to Atlanta. If youre afraid hel lie to you about it.. you can catch him in the act. BUT, I always go home to my wife at the end of the day, just as the ladies go home to their partners too. hi! There is hope. my boyfriend and i have been together for 6 years and we just had a baby girl dec 2012. i recenlty found conversations of him talking to other girls on facebook, one being my so called best friend. He picks fights with me for no reason, is always angry about something trivial and will use as an excuse to sleep away from me. Subtle behaviors were happening. My Husband went out to a party of his ex girlfriend. Classy right. Anyway, I confronted him because it made me feel uncomfortable. My neighbor husband is cheating on his wife throughout their marriage. It is possible to rebuild your marriage after cheating, but its just so heartbreaking. The study is the first to look at how demographics, interpersonal factors and sexual personality affect infidelity. So please, for your sake and the sake of your fertile eggs, look for the red flags and DO NOT MAKE EXCUSES for his bad behavior. He is a military man n hard to read at times. And it hurts to be slapped in the face with this realism. It took me a couple of months to start sleeping with him. Sometimes its better to just let go. Now that is small compared to what i have had to deal with in the last 2 years. whats wrong with men these days? Then I went to his office and conveniently his American Express bills were not in the files. You deserve to be loved and respected and raise your children in a healthy environment. He has seen the truch and van too, so I responded somewhere nearby in one of the establishments. It sounds like your marriage is pretty much finished unless your very forgiving. He replies in the messages, I wish I was there! I want to scream because for years he told me it was all in my head, that I was just being ensecure. We ended up meeting a month or so later and just sat in my car at this faraway park, talking for hours and hours. Youre the only person you can change.what changes do you need to make, in order to be happy in this relationship? If I were you, Id suggest a session with a counselor. He says, if Im going to treat him like crap then hes not going to do anything for me. There was a time when everyone just understood this as the evidence was all around them. Sometimes couple of times in a month. Ive learned now, after much pain and suffering that once a cheater, always a cheater. I think he has a lot of potential to be a great and stable partner. I wnt back to by flat close the door and start crying becouse i loved the dam man, few minutes later he followed me i told him to leave me alone and sort out my problem out, he beg he is sorry he was just ashmed of himself i should forgive him. I feel so jittery right now at the pit of my stomach and my hands get cold thinking about it. Maybe he didnt. Thanks. When I suggested that monogomy was unnatural by no means was I trying to imply that what I was suggesting was factual or applied to everybody. I have lost myself and most of all I feel like i dont get happy about anything anymore. Just try to see the funny side. Its a process sometimes it takes time to build the strength to talk about the suspicion of an affair. My instincts tell me that he may be cheating but I cant figure out how he would have the time. He said he never told me she was an older woman, but Im not an idiot. What should I do? NoLoveLost1992 1 mo. Should I wait until I move closer to him where I can see him day in and day out and then decide or is he already giving me signs that Im confused on? Well i travelled to. He's not going to change his character-assassinating . And why does it seem like the only time he wants me is when becomes home that late from playing poker? Thank you in advance for any advice you can give. I know now he runs around with other women too behind his wifes back! His patterns have changed drastically, He does work fulltime and go to school twice a week. We got married cuz I got pregnant now we have 2years old son. That marriage by the way ended because my wife was sleeping with another man. 2. Its feels good to be bad and naughtythats in us!!! He was force to tell his wife and the polices his affairs, his one nightstands and what he did to meAfter all this, do I regret telling his wifeNO. I feel that, instead of seeing how they react during, watch them afterwards. He must have thought i was comfortable enuf because by April i was suspicious again. All I can do is give you a few things to think about, and encourage you to talk to a counselor or friend that you trust. He does not value your marriage AT ALL. I cannot turn my head to drive, walk, or lay on my side. There are a lot of financial issues as well that could be keeping him here I think thats the only glue. I dont think these tips for knowing if your husband is cheating is stupid. None of you are crazy, nor do you deserve to be subjected to this horrible betrayalstop taking it as a way to measure your worth! Try reading I Hate His/Her Ex by Alex Cooper a book for anyone who needs help and advice dealing with their partners past relationship(s) brilliant read! Those are questions only you can answer. I dont know what to think, I dont want to act accusing, but at the same time, there are only so many excuses I can tolerate. If you accuse him habitually of cheating or have insecurity issues and take them out on him and he has been patient all along, he would begin to get upset once your accusations are amped up in intensity and start to happen everyday. Even on the days you feel weak and scared youre still growing and flourishing. ago Please get tested ASAP. It was a friend, who also disliked the girl. The problem is that we had moved and my husband had a new job when we got divorced. Science has proven that genetic diversity is healthier within biological populations. So I want to ask you as a man in this circumstance do you think my husband is lying or tell the truth? When Danny comes over to get my girl my husband gets this anger that Ive never seen before sometimes he says I flirt with danny and even goes as far as accusing me of wanting danny and saying Id cheat with him. (He doesnt know I check his Google history search box from his iPhone from time to time.) After it, I never had a problem about not trusting him. In March of 2011 we attended a local event and she was also there and several other friends. I have tried speaking to my wife about it many times but her attitude is what we did before was the past and what we do now is how it is and deal with it. I convince myself that hes only here because she didnt want to leave her husband and kids. Laurie, I do agree with you. Come to find out this lady had left her husband a few yrs ago for another man at the plant and he works the opposite shift as them. Hi, I was cheated on about a year ago by my husband! (he is dead wrong) Im tired of being tired of being tired ,he causes so much stress .he tells me all the time that he does nothing to hurt me and to see the women on his viewed post nothing but bold face lies . Doesnt matter. In such cases I think a Private Investigator can help you find out if your husband is cheating. We have been together for 8. None of those are an accuse, but a small chance that a therapist could help. What do I do now.?. Well i have been married for 23 years and i thought we had a good run. RECENTLY, A EMPLOYEE WITH TCS IN RALEIGH N.C. Meaning the affection/love that I deserve. He comes home after work majority of the time but lately he has been pulling away from me, we are not as intimate as we used to be and he seems to not be as open with me ( with his feelings and just things in general) we used to tell each other everything. I am also having a hard time dropping the daily talks. Id love to chat with you privately if youre interested. Theres so much more. I have had this nagging feeling that something isnt right. My parents think we should stay together. Help for marriage problems, for couples who are recently or forever married. we have one child together i have two before him and now we have another on the way. If you are not married and you know he is cheating dont marry him, have sex with him, or countinue dating him that is stupid. Confront him? Too bad for him cause hes in his undies, lol. One night after returning from taking care of my mother, we got home , and he asked me to do something. I have asked him multiple times if I was what he really wanted and if I wasnt I would be okay with it. I feel for you so much. He is cheating,so Am I. I need out. Then other weeks, its as if he cant have enough sex with me. He cried and threw up and then later said.. may i date you? My Boyfriend left for a few days for vacation with his friends, then when he came back he started being a little bit mysterious. I know love can withstand the test if time. Take this quick quiz to see if he actually likes you! I was having a miscarriage at that time and I wasnt aware of it. I discovered it because I was the one paying the cell phone bill and it had been a bit high during that time. I try to tell myself if he wanted to be with that other woman, he would just leave me. pls help! Its easier to hope and wish that hes not cheating, and to obsess about the words and actions that make you think he is lying and cheating. He stopped paying the mortgage so the house is in foreclosure. I rarely wanted to touch him or vice versa. During these 2 years we were still fooling around. Hes taken me for two walks, which means pushing me in a wheelchair around the lake because I cant walk that far with my walker, in a month. Think of porn as drinking coffee. I had two really great friends on the same day call me to tell me they heard my husband was having an affair. Also we used to be intimate almost every night and its already been 4 days he hasnt touched. Im looking for all the help i can get. The husband's refusing to be honest only makes you want to know that much more. Is he away from home and you do not know where he is? My boyfriend lied to me. My husband did the same sort of things to me and he was definitely cheating. Im just not sure what to do about any of it. When he returned to working his night shift, I had a weird feeling and felt compelled to check his Facebook. He said that she had friend requested him and then he changed his story and said that he had requested her to get more coins for a game.. To me the Facebook friendship never made any sense. Recently my husband is visiting Hong Kong. Im sorry, but I dont understand why youre staying with this man. Which he hasnt done for me. I know how you all feel. He has told me he cares about her because she gets into trouble (she is a real gem married, has a coworker boyfriend and has been through six men at work already). Besides, after I busted my husband and his cousin, as a way to make it up to me, ON HIS OWN he took up a large sumed life insurance policy on himself and then bought me an iPhone. (Well, I actually think the most important relationship is with God, but thats a whole different animal :-) ). It is crazy when we dont do the thing that we know and feel is right. It never liesif you think something is going on it prob is. 3. After I saw everything on facebook, I went to see his skype. In October of 2015, I went on a five day vacation with my daughter. I now know he is a narcissist as well. My insecurities spill over into our relationship because my ex cheated on me and I am afraid every other guy I am involved with will cheat on me because of it. The internal struggle , the tug of war between disgust-rage-pain-humiliation- rejection and fear- love- desire- want- need is enough to kill you. A few months went by and surprisingly we ran into each other during a church event I had to go too for work, then again the next weekend and we talked again I asked him if that was his friend behind him and he said no *looked down* my fiance.. i said oh.. and I walked away.. my advise Be your self dont question him in anything pretend you dont see what he is doing until you are sure of what you are sure maybe u want a break or seek for marriage counellor. My sister in law told me she posted somee pictures of the two of us on facebook so I went to go check them out. Nope. very straight forward and informative.. Im so sorry to hear about your husband and marriage. So to ALL my wife friends out there. Part 4: Failure to Grieve. She was married, but lived in another state, so I left it alone at first. I agree with you 100%. Then, we had a breakup, and he immediately started talking to her again. Be very careful who you trust. Due to financial problems, him and I were living with his parents the last few years and in early October of this year, I moved out. We had small children at the time and I mananged to keep the family together and he changed his ways.Fast forward to 2008. (deleted texts between them, etc). Watch his reaction and be aware that he can talk himself out of a wet paper bag and then listen to your gut. I do not know what your story is or how I could even help you. Our daughters age. But there is no way I could ever say whether or not hes having an affair because I dont know anything about him, you, or your marriage. I feel so alone and dont know how to cope with this. She is married. He gets pissy when i go threw his stuff but if i get a txt he will snatch my phone and go threw the whole thing. Going through it was the worst experience, sleepness nights, fear, doubts- and four years later life is better but Trust is just not there anymore. Im 31 been married since I was 16 have 3 kids by him and had my tubes tied because we both agreed we didnt want anymore kids right now and if we decided in the future we wanted more we would do whats needed to concieve again.well now I have 2 stepkids of which one I raise(long story)yes he cheated twice with 2 different women lot of drama crazy females litterally.my mom has been married to 3 different men and I made a vow I would only get married once in my life as he knew divorce has never been an option in my book.marriage was one thing I was gonna do right.well we finally started buying our own place 3 years ago and hes been amazing totally changed for the better. Once again when the sneaky games are stopped being played, and concetrate on each other. My gut keeps saying my husband is unfaithful, but Im just not sure. He is a manipulative control freak!!! Like I said we have three boys together all under the age of 5. So if your friend can do it again please let me know. Finding out she was having sex with him, just before our wedding and again after we got back from our honeymoon. He was telling me I am paranoid, controlling, making him feel paranoid.. while all I wanted was to understand why and how can someone be so cruel and cold. That to me is like hes hiding something. Everything I ever believed in has been smashed to pieces. But I now not sure because I saw his text (he has passcode but luckily it was unlocked) and he was talking about sex position with this girl and say he wanna try next time.as I think they were friend with benefits so before was long time a go or anytime near today? He says he has told me everything after initially lieing. If you think i should stay and try to make this work let me know.. S O S Please help me :(. In your gut, you know. Why would you skype with them people? I dont know what to think about your husbands behavior it does seem odd, thats for sure. Two days after he returned to work and stopped at her relatives house where she was. and leaves office at 5.20 to 5.40 somtimes early . Of course he denied cheating. I dont believe the things he says he wants to improve on because its now Aug 2014, almost a year since i found out all the crap that came out over the months of Nov and Dec 2014, he doesnt plan romantic wkends, he doesnt talk to me much and when he does, it feels like excuses for why he doesnt do anything not enough money (which is BS) not enough time, what do i do with the kids, im tired, i work a lot, etc etc. Be wise. I am even pregnant, I have unpacked my bags because I cant stand going on a four days vacation with him knowing he just cheated on me. Im married to a Narcissist. My name hannan iam filipina live in saudi arabia middle east I been maried 3 years, my husband saudian, I was in loved with him because he was a sweet, loving but he always lying on me, not only once,twice million times thats whyI changed. I gave him a second chance after living in his car and finding his self alone he hasnt done it since. He never put me first. I have to agree with a lot of the points you make. Here are 5signs your husband is cheating, plus 4ways to know if hes lying to you about the affair. I am really hurt by this especially since he turns the tables and makes me feel that everything gooing wrong is my fault. Talks rude disrespectful and down grade. I am worth the life I picture that has me Happy, Whole, and Complete. You are a survivor, and you have the power to get through this and become a stronger, smarter, healthier woman. I agree with you: destructive relationships dont get better, and its better to get out as soon as you think hes cheating. I was devastated because he was checking out her photos one night while I was asleep. My husband went to a concert out of town last night. In fact, he did lie to me here recently about where he told me he ways going and where he actually went. So, the first I notice as I log on: pictures of him and a girl on his destop. whiteflag said: My husband gave me an STD, he wont admit that he cheated and tries to get me to believe that maybe I had it for yrs (we been married 6) and Im just seeing the signs. No family time only myself and the kids, HELP ME!! There's only one way to know if your partner is cheating: Nope, it's not by thumbing through their text messages and emails. 4) He is very frequently secretive with his phone, for example, he may go into another room to go on his phone, especially in the bathroom, where he will be for approximately 20 minutes at a time. I tell him what Id like, get it for about 2 weeks and then nothing from him until I nag at him or question him on why he isnt present in making this work. But one day cleaning, I realized these items that were none of my business had never turned up as gifts to me. I know he is going to the barracks rooms at night but I cant prove anything. He is blaming me if he breaths wrong says in cheating when Im with my kids 24-7. My prayer for you is that you find the resources you need to move past your husbands past. I cant tell if it just me being crazy hormonal or if im right. Trying to rebuild trust after an affair seems impossible. In his audience, 30% of women think their husbands were lying about cheating, not everyone knew for sure. He as four of the signs that hes cheating. Yes, it will be horrible to hear but, when it comes to unfaithfulness, its best to know everything. Than when he comes home he leaves, hell go to his mothers or go where ever he can go to get away from me. He said how can we do anything with her Dad and his friend there. I confronted him and lied and said that someone saw him at the hotel. There is no good reason. So my husband (of 2 years married, 5 together, son together) was caught cheating with his baby momma(who is scum and a horrible mother) he didnt want to admit it. I find peace in her response to him when he emailed her and she replied that she thought he couldnt have friends that were girls. I am pregnant again, and my husband insists we use condoms. So weve been trying to reconcile for almost 1.5years I forgave him for the cheating he said hed not do it again. Why keep on trying when nothing gets better. Not only has your faith and trust in your husband been destroyed, but he also has one step in his cheating life. I have been married for 3yrs now, i love my husband so much dat i can even kill any woman dat come close 2 him. He left me briefly last November b/c he said we fought to much and he needed a break. With time, you will feel it I promise. My doctor and a psychologist has told me to divorce and move on that I will never let it go. I found out I had an std while I was pregnant, and the doctor gave him and I medication to get rid of the std. So, I put my foot down and told him he couldnt talk to her anymore. Please help!!!! I asked him if he would ever do anything to ruin our family and he looked at me and said no of course not. I left it at that knowing that if I were to continue trying to get something out of him it would only make things worse. Ive been making 36 yrs the 1st of November. I have a hard time reading him, and he jokes around a lot. This girl was married but when we went out he was always at work. married is something big thing in life, if you decide out of temper it will never come back to you. Since then I have lost almost 50 pounds I tried going out with him but its so had because I dont know how to mingle and have a good time so we end up fighting. Just because your husband or boyfriend says he believes in a monogamous relationship that doesn't involve him cheating on you, it doesn't mean you can trust him. Im very moody so my mood changes a lot and I disagree with her when she says something illogical. Hes offering to go to therapy by himself as well as with me. Then, after all these years of emotional and verbal abuse, I finally realized there was a name for someone like him. Why does a girl writes to you that she is missing you by sending a picture of her drinking and partying. 2. Find better. He had to fix it, so he just told her he would get a room for her. !I Have been married for 11 yearsI suspect that my husband is cheating on myfor all 11 years.Im 28 and he is 33..He is always out with his friends i meen always FROM DAY ONE THAT WE GOT MARIED,He never likes to take me out,he goes to the gym every day,we have sex 2 time in 6 monthsSometimes once in yearWe have two kidsI .I really love my husband ,I DONT KNOW ANY MORE,,,I FEEL SOMETHING IS GOING ONI fund condom in his working truck ,but we never use condom for us..Im very madHe denies everything.What to do???:(. Hed forgotten. I fully explained what I expected from our relationship and the balance of friends and romance time. He may sincerely believe that he would never cheat. Then last year on Facebook, he met another longtime friend, which he sent Facebook messages to. Your friend sounds like he was the cheater all the time..In my opinion he will cheat on you too ,Most men play the victim mentality card on too another victim,you. During that time, we ended up ending our relationships with the others. I need honesty to move forward, and I read that crack is very addictive. Its not rejection, its not guilt The guy is a cheating liar. We had almost no physical intimacy (holding hands, kissing, etc) 4. I have to do what is right for my kids. I will include a couple links to give you ideas. We began to go out more often with other friends and her, and we became close friends. He admitted to me that four months ago when he learned she would be transferring to another site he bought her a small gift a necklace. You both need to be in a safe place sweetheart I am so sorry you are going through this scary stuff please tell someone that will get you out of harms way. We used to have movie night with popcorn or game night with the kids. Open your eyes and dont be so naive. I said, she deserves better than you and so do I.. Im done with these games. Hello, I have been married for 11 years now. We fought and fought. My husband was talking to other women and lying to me. That we needed space. When you find out a husband or partner has been cheating with another woman, many wives feel embarrassed and want to hide this information. So hard because you wonder how much is made up in your head due to paranoia and if any of it has any truth in it? you see my fiance was searching for his ex on googele the other day and when i taslked to him about it this morning he told me he wanted to see her fail at life and I asked him why and he told me because she rejected him when they were younger and the thing it that as far as I know him and and her was 12 years ago and him and i have been together now for 8 years and i dont see how it should matter to him whether or not she fails at life because she has nothing to do with us unless this happened recently and the way i see it is he is with me he has kids with me so why should she matter to him? My boys never knew, which was my one objective. I only knew 1 of the girlsshes 19, young and ditzy and she introduced me to the others but this new best friend thinks that I am the rudest person shes ever met because of the hospital incident. Im not from a divorced family so i dont know what it feels like but I will say that my son is going to have alot of questions for his father when he does find out. By the way shes married with two kids and apparently was having a real sexual affair with one of my husbands friends . Facebook is just another way for your man to view and chat with women behind your back . It was almost like he was protecting her or their memory. He said that during the time he and she were emailing, he felt guilty because he knew it was wrong and was going to let it phase out because it seem to be. I dont know what to do and looking for advise on how to save my marriage. My prayer is that you know and accept the truth, and that you find ways to move forward in your life. Back to you that she is missing you by sending a picture of her drinking and partying my. Items that were none of my business had never turned up as gifts to me his and. A very loving person, with hopes for a friend- it is for him to up. 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